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The Classic Finger Routine

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on November 9, 2009
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This routine is a fun way to break the ice. Use it to build comfort with the people you are interacting with.

Quickly glance at the fingers of the girl your talking to, and then ask, “I am curious, why did you choose to to wear that ring on that particular finger?”

[She responds].

“The reason why I am curious, is that the fingers that people choose to wear rings on say a lot about that person’s personality.”

She should not be interested in what you have to say. Take a moment to tell her about each finger that she doesn’t have a finger on. Then move on to explaining about the fingers that do have rings on them. Use the fingers that have rings on them to tell her more about who she is.

Here are sample scripts for each of the fingers, feel free to improvise and modify when needed:

THUMB

“The thumb represents Poseidon. He was extremely independent. He wasn’t up on Mount Olympus. He preferred to be in the sea doing his own thing.

Next tell her how to notice that the thumb sticks out from the rest of the hand. This is an interesting feature to notice because aside from it representing individualism, it show that they is a trend setter not a follower.

INDEX FINGER

Tell her that the index finger represents Zeus, the god of lightning and thunder.

Zeus, the king of the gods, is represented with this finger. Any person that wears a ring on their index finger, tends to be a more dominant individual.

End by waving of your index finger at her as if to say “no no no” or “don’t do that.”

MIDDLE FINGER

The middle finger represents the god Dionysus.

When a person wears a ring on this finger, it show that that person is usually more care free. Dionysus was the Greek god that believed that life should be lived more care free and less seriously.

If they’re wearing a ring on this finger toss up your middle finger and joke, “It’s like saying screw you to the world.” This almost always get a laugh.

RING FINGER

“Your ring finger is of course represented by Aphrodite, the goddess of love. Perhaps that’s why we wear our wedding rings on this particular finger.

Next tell that usually when a person falls in love with another person, they tend to fall for them completely.

Conclude with “Interestingly, it is the only finger that has a vein that goes straight to the heart without branching off, so when someone puts a ring on that finger, they’re actually making a direct connection with your heart.” If she’s comfortable, trace a line from her finger up her arm as you say this.

PINKY FINGER

“The pinky is represented by Ares, the god of war. You’ll often see mobsters with pinky rings on.

Your pinky ring shows that you have a darker side and that you are a protector. Usually if anyone messes with your loved ones, you are the first come to their aid. It also shows that you can keep secrets. Tell her that you bet she can be trusted to keep and protect secrets as well. Maybe that’s where the pinky swear comes from.”

At the end, you should smile and momentarily lock your pinky with hers.

CONTINGENCIES:

* If she isn’t wearing rings and you still want to use this routine, then you can begin by saying “Look at your hands and imagine that you’re wearing some rings. Now, tell me which fingers you’re imagining them on.”

* If during or after the routine the woman asks, “How do you know this?” You may respond, “An ex- girlfriend of mine was into mythology and taught it to me.”

* If she wears a ring on her wedding finger then inquire “Is that an engagement ring or do you just wear that to keep the womanizers away?” You’ll be surprised how often the latter is true.

Here is quick reference pocket guide for you to memorize and use. Enjoy.

Pinky = Ares representing conflict and protection Index = Zeus representing dominance and power Middle = Dionysus representing irreverence Ring = Aphrodite representing love and romance Thumb = Poseidon representing individuality

Neil Strauss and is Stylelife Coaches, possess the skills to make you a master pick up artist by teaching you how to get the girl of you dreams by mastering the Ring Finger Routine!!!!

3 Tips To Help Guarantee You A More Fun Life

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on October 15, 2009
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by Jay Schultz

In 1983, Cindy Lauper revealed to the world that girls just want to have fun. Well Cindy, you girls aren’t alone. Saying people enjoy fun is a rather obvious statement, figuring out HOW to have fun is a much trickier matter. Here are some key life adjustments to help get you started…

TIP 1: LOOK AT EVERYDAY ACTIVITIES WITH A NEW MINDSET

Children are the best example for life. Next time observe carefully how children respond when you give them a job to do. If you pay careful attention you will notice that children turn jobs into games. In the process finding enjoyment in what they do, instead of dislike and hatred. Approaching everyday tasks, by getting in touch with your inner child each day, will bring a smile to your face.

KEY 2: ADD NEW EVENTS TO YOUR LIFE

Once you have practiced making old tasks in your life more enjoyable, it is time to fill up your life with more variety and new opportunities. Find something new to do each day. Things, task, or ideas that made you feel uncomfortable before should become new opportunities. Its your job to fill your calendar with new events that break your comfort zone.

Check out concerts, art shows, cool restaurants, para sailing, road trips, house parties, movie premiers, as well as anything else that you can possibly think of. Be creative and open minded, your events can be something as simple as riding a bike, or as grand as going to Burning Man.

KEY 3: BE SURE THERE’S NO PLACE LIKE HOME

Finding new excitement, from new and old events is fun and life changing, but you will always need a place to hang your head. Your house is your sanctuary after a long day or night out on the town. Find ways to set up your house so that it makes you feel comfortable and gives off a vibe of relaxation and class.

Plus, when you really start to delve deep into the teachings of Stylelife you’ll discover that things like Guitar Hero, Twister, and a Cruel Intentions DVD are far more valuable than you ever expected.

The journey is the destination. What you do with your life is only half the battle. The other part that is equally important, is finding the right people who can share your journey with you.

Be selective; genuinely search for people with great personalities. Stay away from downers, even good looking women. There are things that are more important than looks. You deserve the best, so don’t settle for any less.

Another important element to remember is choosing the right women. You want to find a women who complements you. The key is to look for someone you can trust and confine in, and enjoys you sense of fun.

The journey is the destination. Find enjoyment that others fail to see by awakening your inner child. Look for genuine people who can share in your journey, and in the process having as much fun as possible.

About the Author:
Neil Strauss and his Stylelife Academy have the skills to make you a better pick up artist. Find out how to get the girl you have always wanted by unlocking a more enjoyable life by using these 3 key techniques!!!!

How To Seduce Her Through Truth Or Dare

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George Rockwell
on October 4, 2009
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by George Rockwell

Truth or dare is one of the oldest kids games, but did you know that this game can be used to unlock a woman’s hidden desires?

“What every happens in the game, stays in the game.” This should be the first thing you do to start off the game. You want to create an aura of comfort for the woman you playing with. Comfort ultimately lead to trust. Imagine the possibilities by playing a game with a woman who trusts you and is comfortable with you…and can keep secrets.

How Truths Work:

Truth is comfort plus trust. The idea is to build a high level of trust and comfort, progressing as the game goes into the night. The key is to escalate slowly with each truth question and then take it up a notch when you start to ask the dare questions.

How Dares Work:

Dares also must be slowly escalated. You can eventually get to sexual acts, but first you have to gain their trust. Do this by very slowly progressing the sexuality of each dare.

Take your time. Truth or dare has benefits to being patient. Do not try to rush things by asking her to take off her clothes or make out with you.

Truths:

* Play with her. Ask her, “Who in the group are you most attracted to, but you can’t talk about their looks?”

* Tell her to answer truthfully, no one is going to judge her. What quality about her best girlfriend, does she not like? and why?

* What quality should the opposite sex do more often to turn her on?

* If you had the chance, where would you have sex the most?

* Tell her to give a specific example of when she had really great sex.

* Ask her to tell you what is the most embarrassing sexual encounter she has ever had?

* If you have ever masturbated, what did you think of? And when was the last time?

* If you were going to hook up with your celebrity crush, paint me a mental image of what you would do to her/her.

Dares:

* Trust test: Fall into my arms.

* Pretend my hand is the man of your dreams. For 30 seconds pretend to seduce my hand as though this guy was right in front of you.

* Look deeply into her eyes. Tell her to imagine you as the man she lusts after. Dare her to keep looking at you in the eyes as she says conveys the most pornographic images shes has ever though about doing to a man.

* Pretend you have a devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other, they are both going to grant you the power to do one thing that is absolutely the kindest act that you could ever imagine and the most horrible evil demonic act of depravity that you could ever imagine. The catch is you can’t choose one, you have to do both. What two actions would you take? (make them role play talking to the devil and angel on their shoulders.)

* Imagine that you run out of money and have to make enough to live by prostituting yourself. Pretend I’m a client. Convince me to buy you for the night.

* Pick a spot on my body, other than my mouth, to make out for 10 seconds.

* Have a staring contest. Dare her to start at you as you both move closer to each other until your nose to nose. The person who backs out first, gives the other person a kiss.

* Prop dares: Ask her to pick something that she thinks is sexy, and do something vivid with it.

* Tell a girl that she has to take her top off but there’s a catch. She can’t show any of you her boobs. She has to hide them by pressing them up against your back and taking her top off, then she has to put it back on.

* Dare her to take her bra off with out taking her shirt off.

* Dare her to try to take your ring off your finger, by sucking it off.

Eventually, if you escalate correctly, they will begin to progress the game to higher levels of sexual exploration.

This is not just a one sided game, be prepared for the women to come back with her own truths and dares. If done properly she will escalate things before you do.

About the Author:
Neil Stauss and his Stylelife Academy possess the tools to make you a master pick up artist by teaching you how to use the game truth or dare to you advantage!!!

Party Like There Is No Tomorrow

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by Jason Schultz

There are tricks you can use to make a good gathering into a great party. Aside from taking care of the basics (don’t forget music, food, and drinks), take the time to consider the following questions. Proper planning will make all the difference.

Question #1: Why are you having the party?

Is it a birthday or holiday? Perhaps your good friend is moving to L.A. and you are throwing him a going away celebration. The more personal and important the reason, the better the party will be. When in doubt use Google Earth Calendar it’s a cool website that will give you a reason to celebrate every day.

As a last resort, simply make something fun and quirky up! Recall Cialdini’s lesson on the word “because,” and how it facilitates acceptance. If you have a reason to root your party such as, “I am throwing a party because my friend is going away to the West Coast” or “I am throwing a party because it’s Manic Monday” people are more likely to accept the invitation.

Question #2: What is the theme of this party?

One of Stylelife’s top students and one of my finest wings, Trouble, added some very wise advice. “Every party must have a theme. I used to throw parties for a living in London, and people got about 100 times wilder at a Playboy Mansion party than they did at a party without a theme - even though the only real difference was that I blew up a bunch of black and white balloons and handed out bunny ears.”

Question #3: What is your big surprise?

This is the sneaky trick that leaves your party guests blown away. Have one surprise you never mention to anyone. For example at my last BBQ party, I hired a woman to come by with her piragua cart. Piragua is a Puerto Rican food that’s like a snow cone, but way better. We started adding a splash of rum to the piragua and creating the ultimate summer party treat. The surprise wasn’t very expensive, but the value it added to my party guest experience was immeasurable.

Party on! A good party has different elements to it. If you successfully combine a party with value, a theme, and a surprise, you will have a party experience that other people will be talking about for months to come.

About the Author:
Neil Strauss and his Stylelife Academy have the skills to make you a better pick up artist by teaching you how to throw the perfect party!!!

The Sensation Only Touch Can Bring

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Ray Timmons
on September 20, 2009
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Imagine the following scenario: John takes Jane on a date. The night is loaded with tons of excellent conversation and some fun activity, but they never touch. John feels that he must be a gentleman and believes that gentlemen keep their hands off.

What a night Jane thought. I hope John will kiss me. John walks Jane to her front door, looks deeply into her eyes, says good night, and then walks away. Jane thinks to herself too bad. John forgot to do the most important thing that most men forget to do; gradually touching a women throughout the night.

Driving home, John is cursing at himself. He thinks to himself that he should have kissed her and that he missed his opportunity. If only he could have broken the tension.

What John does not know is that Jane would like to be touched by him. It shows that he is interested in her.

You can just kiss a women. You have to gradually build up to a kiss. Make her feel comfortable with your touch. You are about to learn how to kiss a girl every time you go out on a date, and learn to avoid Johns mistakes in the process.

Proper kino (or touching) escalation is an intricate process to building attraction and sealing a close. It can mean the difference between ending up in the no-nookie friend zone, and ending up between the sheets with that woman you’re attracted to.

One thing that you need to understand, women want to feel that any new intimate relationship or casual encounter that they have is intuitively the right thing.

Look to make your touch seem as innocent and causal. Each touch should feel as though you are touching your friend. Build up your touch to the point where she feels as completely comfortable with your touch.

Listed below is the outline for the “Kino Ladder.”

1. Lightly touch her arm. A quick touch between the elbow and shoulder should be your first contact with a women. Remember, kino escalation starts slowly and then builds as her comfort builds.

2. Find moments where you connect in a conversation. These connections should be heightened with touching. If she laughs at your jokes, take a moment to playfully touch her in a non threatening manner.

3. Gradually build up to the kiss. A kiss should not come before a shoulder touch.

The Kino Ladder, is one of the best ways to overcome the touch barrier.

A) Build up to increased touch. Start with a quick hand grab, or a shoulder pat.

B) Next, look to show you are an interesting person by taking her hand and showing her a magic trick or read her palm.

C) Once you have proven that you are an interesting person. Take a moment to watch her interaction with you. If she is giving you massive amounts of compliance, ask if you can take her away from her group. Tell her in private that you feel she is very special and continue building kino escalation.

D) Getting the girl alone is just beginning. A women that goes off with a man, usually means that shes trusts him subtly. When your alone with the girl take the opportunity to build greater kino.

E) Escalate gradually by touching her lightly on the shoulder, hand, or her lower back

Now that you gotten her alone and you have made her comfortable to your touch, its time to make your move. Use this Kino Ladder example to make women comfortable and respond to your touch in a positive manner.

Neil Strauss and his Stylelife coaches possessthe skills to make you a better pick up artist by teaching you how to seduce the girl with the power of touch!!!

7 Manners She’ll Love You For Having

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Stylelife Coaches
on August 14, 2009
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When on a date being polite will score you massive points with the girl your with. There are seven simple things you should do to win her over.

1. First impressions last a lifetime. Making eye contact, smiling, and taking the effort to shake their hand will show poise and confidence that other people lack. A solid handshake is also an excellent way to shift into demonstrating higher value involving palm reading or other hand routines.

2. Turn your phone OFF! Being on the phone is a date killer. If you are on the phone constantly, you are not interesting.

3. Leave your ego at home. Pull out her seat, let her order food first, and don’t burp out loud. You will be surprised at how far you can get, by being polite to a women.

4. When out eating somewhere, surprise her by taking care of the bill without her knowing. When she ask later about paying, play with her. Look her in the eye, smile and say, “too late.” Major points.

5. It’s the little things that make a big difference. Your date should walk on the inside of the sidewalk, closest to the building, with you on the outside. This polite mannerism originated from the days when people used to empty their chamber pots out their window. Today it has evolved into a man keeping a woman safe from cars running off the road. Next time you are walking with her, take the time to explain this tradition.

6. Open and close the car door for her. Many women have ended dates when this simple act of kindness was neglected. If you drop her off, make sure she gets inside safely.

7. Take the time to pay attention to the smallest detail when on a date. During your date, stay aware of your dates emotions and needs, shows that you are truly unlike other men. The best way, that is usually forgotten, is by doing this is by using the words: Please and Thank You.

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Neil Strauss and his Stylelife Coaches can teach you all the Alpha Male Manners to get the woman. To learn more, join his pick up artist school for appeal and dating.
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