This routine is a fun way to break the ice. Use it to build comfort with the people you are interacting with.
Quickly glance at the fingers of the girl your talking to, and then ask, “I am curious, why did you choose to to wear that ring on that particular finger?”
[She responds].
“The reason why I am curious, is that the fingers that people choose to wear rings on say a lot about that person’s personality.”
She should not be interested in what you have to say. Take a moment to tell her about each finger that she doesn’t have a finger on. Then move on to explaining about the fingers that do have rings on them. Use the fingers that have rings on them to tell her more about who she is.
Here are sample scripts for each of the fingers, feel free to improvise and modify when needed:
THUMB
“The thumb represents Poseidon. He was extremely independent. He wasn’t up on Mount Olympus. He preferred to be in the sea doing his own thing.
Next tell her how to notice that the thumb sticks out from the rest of the hand. This is an interesting feature to notice because aside from it representing individualism, it show that they is a trend setter not a follower.
INDEX FINGER
Tell her that the index finger represents Zeus, the god of lightning and thunder.
Zeus, the king of the gods, is represented with this finger. Any person that wears a ring on their index finger, tends to be a more dominant individual.
End by waving of your index finger at her as if to say “no no no” or “don’t do that.”
MIDDLE FINGER
The middle finger represents the god Dionysus.
When a person wears a ring on this finger, it show that that person is usually more care free. Dionysus was the Greek god that believed that life should be lived more care free and less seriously.
If they’re wearing a ring on this finger toss up your middle finger and joke, “It’s like saying screw you to the world.” This almost always get a laugh.
RING FINGER
“Your ring finger is of course represented by Aphrodite, the goddess of love. Perhaps that’s why we wear our wedding rings on this particular finger.
Next tell that usually when a person falls in love with another person, they tend to fall for them completely.
Conclude with “Interestingly, it is the only finger that has a vein that goes straight to the heart without branching off, so when someone puts a ring on that finger, they’re actually making a direct connection with your heart.” If she’s comfortable, trace a line from her finger up her arm as you say this.
PINKY FINGER
“The pinky is represented by Ares, the god of war. You’ll often see mobsters with pinky rings on.
Your pinky ring shows that you have a darker side and that you are a protector. Usually if anyone messes with your loved ones, you are the first come to their aid. It also shows that you can keep secrets. Tell her that you bet she can be trusted to keep and protect secrets as well. Maybe that’s where the pinky swear comes from.”
At the end, you should smile and momentarily lock your pinky with hers.
CONTINGENCIES:
* If she isn’t wearing rings and you still want to use this routine, then you can begin by saying “Look at your hands and imagine that you’re wearing some rings. Now, tell me which fingers you’re imagining them on.”
* If during or after the routine the woman asks, “How do you know this?” You may respond, “An ex- girlfriend of mine was into mythology and taught it to me.”
* If she wears a ring on her wedding finger then inquire “Is that an engagement ring or do you just wear that to keep the womanizers away?” You’ll be surprised how often the latter is true.
Here is quick reference pocket guide for you to memorize and use. Enjoy.
Pinky = Ares representing conflict and protection Index = Zeus representing dominance and power Middle = Dionysus representing irreverence Ring = Aphrodite representing love and romance Thumb = Poseidon representing individuality
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