Crazy People Work From Home…

It is fun to meet people with an online dating service but do not forget throw common sense out the window when it comes to safety. Take caution in the following area I mention below.

Computer Security

Make sure you have some kind of computer security before hitting the dating sites. You should have both a firewall and an anti-virus program for your email and when you browse the dating sites. A free firewall is made by Zone Alarm and a free anti-virus program is AVG.

Personal Safety

You need to take care that you choose safe dating sites. I recommend you use the ones you see advertised on TV. The reason is that if the company is making enough money to spend millions advertising on TV, they must be doing something right. Also, these companies vet both advertisers and users who seek only financial gain from using their dating service. You can also ask your friends what online dating service they used to find their spouses.

So take care. Arm your computer ” and yourself- with the correct tools and knowledge!

With safety covered, I will now talk about how to build an online relationship. Online relationships need tending to if you want them to grow just like relationships offline.

1. Relationships are about giving time and taking time. Does your prospect try and contact you on a regular basis? Do you do the same? Neglecting online chats, IM, or emails is a form of abuse and neglect. You both should be treating each other with respect. If you are not, then you should end the relationship.

2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So do not rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3. Respect each others right to privacy. Do not share photos or emails with your other friends, especially if it was sent to you in confidence.

4. Share both online and offline experiences. Online - send digital cards, website links, your favorite music and videos, pics of your pet, etc. Offline - send cards, postcards, and pics from your local area like a pic of your house, your car, the beautiful park across the street, etc.

Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.