You want you and your boyfriend to get back together. Do you feel lost without him? Are you feeling lonely now that he is gone? Are you desperate to get him back?
Consider changing your approach towards him and the relationship if you want you and your boyfriend to get back together. He may have panicked if the relationship moved along to quickly and marriage was on the horizon.
Perhaps he felt lacking in personal space or smothered in the relationship. He may have felt totally out of control of his plans for the future. Maybe, he felt some pressure from you and needed to back away from the relationship.
Hopefully this is the case but if you push too much it very well could be. If what you want is you and your boyfriend get back together you have to be aware of this.
Keep in mind that as a man, he thrives on his independence. He needs space from time to time. The idea of marriage and commitment may have seemed appealing to him for a moment. Then his reality set in and he may have experienced the feelings of being lead into the relationship. He needs to be and feel in control and in charge of himself and the situations he gets involved in during his lifetime.
When the relationship moves along too quickly he feels out of control. He may not feel ready for commitment or marriage. He may feel lead into a long-term relationship. He may not feel ready for such a relationship with anyone. If he feels that way, he is not ready. Understandably, he will head the other direction if he feels pressured when he is not ready for a long-term relationship.
If he has run off the other way and you really want you and your boyfriend to get back together you will have to keep it to yourself and not let him see you get overly sensitive over it. Make up your mind that you will not try to force him down that road. What you really want anyway is for him to walk that road with you willingly, while you allow him to take the lead. He really needs to feel as if he is choosing this direction because he is ready and he does want too.
You are dealing with a break up right now, since there is no direction. However, now is a good time to get back on that path? He may be free and clear of you to an extent.
If the two of you are still on a friendly basis and he wants to talk, be available. However, you should not be too available. When he calls, do not be readily available. When he wants to make plans, turn him down the first time but ask him for a rain check. You want him to pursue you, allow him to hunt.
Keep in mind that sometimes the things you want the most are those things that are the hardest to get. Let him hunt you. Men most often hunt for those things that are hardest to find. Allow him to go in for the kill and you will both be happy.
You must be someone worth hunting for, so allow yourself to be the prey, although not so easily caught, when you want him to commit. Perhaps doing this will help you and your boyfriend get back together.

