Dating Someone Else, a Tactic to Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back

No doubt when you read the title of this article, suggesting that to win back your ex boyfriend you should date someone else, you thought it sounded like a crazy idea. After all, shouldnt you do the opposite? Shouldnt you let him know how much he means to you instead of doing something that makes him think you dont care? Well, read on before you decide its the wrong thing to do.

Let me explain! When you’ve been dumped by someone you’re still in love with, instinctively your first thoughts are to chase after them and to beg and plead with them to take you back. It’s pretty much a mad panic on your part to get right back into the relationship before your ex boyfriend forgets about you and or meets someone else.

The first thing you need to do is take a deep breath and get a reality check. First, hes not going to forget you, even if hes dating someone else. Trust me if you once had a good relationship, he remembers. And there may be a way back, but its not through the begging and pleading routine.

So you need to take a break from the relationship. Completely. Let him do whatever it is he thinks he needs to do. Do not contact your ex boyfriend and let him think about what hes done, while youre thinking about it too.

It gets easier once youve made a decision to take a break from your ex boyfriend. Now, call up some of your friends, put on your favorite outfit and go out and have some fun. It will take your mind off trying to patch things up. Dont be tempted to call him. Remember youve made a decision to take a break.

If you meet someone who you feel you’d like to date, don’t let your desire to win back ex boyfriend stop you. Remember, you’re not actually in a relationship with your ex, you’ve broken up and you’re a free agent. So if you’re emotionally ready to have some fun, go ahead and have some!

You dont have to be serious about the guy. You probably want to tell him you just want to have some fun with him and that youre not ready for anything serious. Tell him you like him and just want to get to know him.

Dont do this to make your ex boyfriend jealous. Do it to have fun and take your mind off the problems in your old relationship. Be clear about this in your mind so that you dont let it get in the way of getting to know your new friend.

Getting to know someone new may just make you realize you dont want to get back with your ex boyfriend anyway. The new guy might not be exactly right for you but he may have something your ex boyfriend didnt have that you might really think is important in a new relationship. Taking this break and dating someone else may be just what you need to do to win back your ex boyfriend.